Episode 037

Why do men love the chase but not the catch? I’m about to get real with you…I feel like a man’s eyes are on you until he gets what he’s wanting and then his focus shifts to his next pursuit. Ladies, do you agree? Men, do you beg to differ?

I know that’s not with ALL men, but for me, it feels like a pattern. It was even something as a little girl that I paid attention to. And because of that, I always feared getting married. I feared that if I finally had a relationship with a man where we were committed forever, that he would stop pursuing me. The pursuit would be over.

I’ve be so curious about this and wanting to understand this in great depth and that’s why I brought Stefanos Sifandos onto the HYDRATE podcast. In the episode, he gave me a clear understanding as to why I feel like this is a regular pattern with men, and what I can do as a woman to break it.

Stefanos is a trained educator and relationship expert with a background in behavioral science. He is passionate about leading people closer to their highest potential. He helps men and women escape negative patterns and cultivate a positive sense of self as well as restructuring and re-framing their relationships with themselves and their loved ones.

Whether you’re a man or woman, I know there is a part of this episode that will speak to you and bring greater awareness to your actions in your relationships.